Symbolic Wedding Gestures To Celebrate Love!

Symbolic weddings are non-traditional ceremonies to celebrate a couples’ love, commitment, and strong connection through gestures. These symbolic gestures can be rituals or traditions. From the rings, vows to handfasting which one is right for you?

Did you know a symbolic wedding does not carry any legal marriage obligations? Couples can separate the symbolic gestures from the civil wedding. The personal gestures symbolically unite two people into one;their shared promises, hopes, and dreams.

Whether you are married, considering marriage, celebrating a anniversary or just wanting to celebrate your love. A wedding celebration  with symbolic gestures can complement and complete a legal marriage. The Times said that ‘double weddings are reshaping modern nuptials. Therefore, a coup Here’s a guide for planning a symbolic wedding ceremony before or after a civil marriage. Let’s dive in!

Symbolic Weddings • Non-Traditional Wedding Ceremonies.

Intimate symbolic celebration groom and bride signs a certificate with non-religious celebrant.
Intimate symbolic celebration -Anja & Sam – Ketelhuis Strijp-S, Eindhoven –  fischerfotografie.nl

1. Non-religious officiant costs for symbolic weddings

A non-religious officiant serves non-traditional wedding couples seeking a symbolic wedding. Secular officiants and non-traditional celebrants can welcome guests and lead the ceremony. The symbolic ceremony guides couples through their vows, ring exchange and the first kiss. Most importantly, a story-led ceremony enriches the intimate symbolic celebrations. What does it cost? A symbolic wedding costs vary from €700 to €1,500. This depends on the venue and officiant (celebrant). Did you know your mum, dad or family member can marry you? The non-legally binding symbolic ceremony enhances your legal wedding! Source: bridebook.com.

2. Symbolic Wedding vs Marriage registrar

Planning a symbolic wedding with or without a legal marriiage? Marriage registrars conduct legally binding marriages and civil partnership ceremonies. The local authority employs them. These marriage registrars can perform ceremonies in register offices or any building/space that is licensed for civil weddings. Source: independent celebrants.com

blessing of the hands ceremony with bride and groom
The blessing of the hands ceremony great alternative to a non-traditional wedding.  Source: humanist wedding 

3. Symbolic wedding ceremonies abroad

Intimate symbolic celebrations abroad are popular. The investment for non-traditional wedding ceremony can be less than a wedding in your country. There’s lots of preparation involved. From the location, budget and guestlist, where do you start? Search for symbolic wedding celebrants where you want to marry. Otherwise select an international wedding planner. Whether you envision a rooftop venue, a castle on a hill, or a boat wedding, your dream destination is within reach. Choose for a story-led intimate symbolic celebration at www.theweddingtravelcompany.com.

Intimate symbolic celebration with bride and groom surrounded by orange and pink flowers, and officiant.
intimate symbolic celebration. Vola & Adama

4. Symbolic wedding ceremony timeline

A symbolic wedding lasts between 20 and 45 minutes. Couples can choose the length of their symbolic ceremony. This includes symbolic gestures. the ring exchange, personal vows and the blessing of the hands. However, you can or exclude them.

gay couples celebrant performing a wedding speech
celebrants make your blessing of the hands – symbolic ceremony shine! www.michielstock.com

5. Symbolic wedding ceremony elements

At the heart of a symbolic wedding is a celebration of love and commitment. This is a key aspect of incorporating special elements. Raise the spirit of the day by including your love story, poems, music ring exchanges, readings, and rituals. Do you want prayers or emotional wedding vows? Don’t hesitate to ask your celebrant for tips.

6. Symbolic gestures

Are you getting married for the first, second or third time? Why not, include a symbolic wedding gesture. The ceremony allows you to incorporate meaningful symbols and establish new traditions.

A wedding officiant with warmth, energy, and a joyful spirit delivering a ceremony for the bride and groom at the Grachtenmuseum Herengracht in Amsterdam.
Minister of Love (non-religious). A wedding officiant helps international couples create a non-legally binding wedding. The way they like it! Grachtenmuseum Herengracht Amsterdam

7. Legal requirements second marriage

Make your marriage legal with a license, if you want. First sort out the paperwork at your local city or town hall. According to remarriage law, a ceremony conducted by a registrar will officially recognize your bond. For more information about planning it, visit europa.eu/youreurope

8. Witnesses for a symbolic marriage

Yes and no. An official ceremony requires 2 to 4 witnesses. However, symbolic weddings do not requre witnesses to attend. On the other hand, if you want witnesses remember, extra space is needed on the symbolic certificate for the signing of the names. When planning, invite as many people as you like to support you during the ceremony. That said, you can still plan a special day without them.

remarrying and second wedding ceremonies celebrates love and builds stronger community bonds.
Symbolic wedding ceremonies celebrate love and build stronger community bonds. © Kasteel Helmond – Jorick de Kruit
remarrying a second wedding couple pose in front of window
An intimate symbolic celebration ceremony is an alternative to a religious marriage service.© Kasteel Helmond – Jorick de Kruit

9. Symbolic wedding location

The Times said that ‘double weddings are reshaping modern nuptials. Therefore, a couple can celebrate love with a symbolic wedding without legal wording.’ Are you planning to remarry? I’m sure many things were different with your first marriage. Perhaps you are older, and have a better sense of yourself. So you know the wedding you’d like. Whether you plan to remarry within six, twelve or twenty-four months. Remember your views on life have change, and therefore this time round it will be more rewarding. For inspiration read a second wedding, second chance real story at Bridal Guide.com

10. Symbolic wedding vows

Planning marriage vows can be challenging, but it’s a blessing to find love again. Symbolic gestures and  your vows express deeper emotions. Exchange vows during a celebrant-led ceremony or an anniversary party to symbolize love and hope for your new life together. Check out Marriage.com for beautiful and emotional wedding vow ideas that can help you write personal vows for your partner.

11. Wedding outfit

You’ve have been given a second chance to love and that means finding a wedding outfit. This time round you can dump the traditional white wedding dress and navy suit for him. Outfits for remarriage comes in many colours and styles. And depending on your mood it’s customary for the bride to wear an off-white or colourful dress; to be worn at any length (within reason). For your partner they can wear whatever makes them feel comfortable. Plan it the way you want!

 Intimate symbolic celebration of gay couples' symbolic ceremony.
symbolic ceremony or real wedding ceremony? picties

Symbolic Ceremony Celebrant

Celebrate your love with the perfect symbolic ceremony for 2. Find a celebrant who takes the time to understand your couple’s unique journey. This allows them to craft your symbolic ceremony without religious content. However, some celebrants can add a symbolic gesture or  bible readings to honour love – just ask them? Celebrating love your way at home or abroad!

Non-religious Officiant

Whether you are an atheist, or interfaith couple a symbolic ceremony full of special elements, symbolic gestures and acts of love add an extra personal touch. Whatever your beliefs and backgrounds this could work for you both. Ask an experienced non-religious officiant to guide you through a symbolic ceremony.

Humanists symbolic ceremonies 

Humanist weddings are ceremonial weddings that signify a non-legal marriage, that feels like a real wedding day! Humanist celebrants are highly trained officiants. These wordsmiths craft and deliver beautiful symbolic ceremonies. While symbolic weddings to howcase a couple’s personality in a special way.

Intimate symbolic celebration and the blessing of the hands ceremony man and woman under a white veil.
The blessing of the hands ceremony

Universal life ceremony

The Universal Life Church allows couples to ordain family and firends to officiate a symbolic ceremony. Within minutes, they can become officiated.  Your chosen family officiant can join the many celebrities like Adele. A Universal Life Church minister  performs a non-legally binding ceremony (USA only). Your officiant delivers a story-led story during an intimate symbolic ceremony your way. Source: www.ulc.org

The blessing of the hands ceremony with two brides kissing.
Brianna Amick – Pexels

 

the blessing of the hands two brides walking in the garden
Queer & LGBTQ+  intimate symbolic celebration. Blessing of the hands ceremony.

Symbolic Wedding – Blessing of the Hands by Rev. Daniel L. Harris

These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever.

And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch. Source: One Fab Day

While you’re here…….

Planning a symbolic wedding ceremony? I would love to hear about it below.

2 Comments

  1. Angela Marshall

    When I officiate my sons symbolic wedding do I read the vows to them and do I pronounce them husband and wife.

    • Clover Jean

      Hi Angela Marshall, Congratulations on officiating your son’s upcoming wedding and thank you for your question. Here’s the answer: YES, you read the ‘official vows’, first then you pronounce them husband and wife. For more tips about a symbolic ceremony script guideline https://www.cloverjean.com/symbolic-ceremony-or-real-wedding/ Good luck, kind regards, Clover Jean

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