One of the biggest gambles in your life is choosing the right ethical engagement ring for your upcoming warming ceremony. Ring warming ceremonies have existed for many centuries and are a beautiful part of a special marriage ceremony.
So, how do you and your partner select the most dazzling sparkler of your dreams? Well, both of you are socially responsible but know you have a challenge on your hands. However, selecting your own multifaceted engagement ring could bring you bad luck.
On the other hand, it’s a brilliant idea. Why? You are ethically aware, and know exactly what compliments and represents your eco-friendly style, values and personality. Read the below pros and cons about picking the most perfect and beautiful ring.
Pro: Imagine you get exactly what you want
Let’s be honest, choosing your own conflict-free engagement ring can be fun. Moreover, the biggest pro is, you’ll get the right thing. But, what if your soon-to-be fiancé has no idea? It could cause a problem! So, go shopping together and enjoy some quality time. And remember the sight of the gemstone shining on your finger, will remind you of the shared experience.
Con: There are no surprises about the ring
Secondly, do you love surprises? Well, you can forget all about that, if you choose your own engagement ring. Nevertheless, for him it could be a big deal. And he might prefer to bestow you with a ring of sentimental value. But, the truth is you want to select it yourself. It’s the most important ring you’ll ever own. In fact, you hurt his feelings if he’s unable to surprise you!
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Pro: Shopping for rings is a big bonding experience
Additionally, why not create cherished memories and design a “bling” ring together? Choosing the proper gemstone setting can be as special as the proposal, engagement and your wedding day. So, look online for great resources at www.whiteflash.com. Otherwise, go hand-in-hand to the jewelry shops.
Con: Selecting the ring of your dreams is impersonal
And here is the flip-side, settling on your own engagement ring is impersonal and less authentic. And depending on his character the romantic gesture of love can spark an early marriage date. Moreover, your soon-to-be fiancé wants to make you happy and his choice of style might just put a big smile on your face.
Pro: Take the pressure off your soon-to-be fiancé
Here’s something else to consider, your eco-friendly fiancé might feel under pressure, stressed out and worried about getting it wrong. And no matter how well he gets you, you may like to pick something different. Actually, it could be a huge weight of his shoulders. So, set a new benchmark select a ring that symbolizes your everlasting love for one another.
Con: Keep an eye on his spending habits
Guess what? The engagement band could be pretty pricey. Basically, you would prefer that he discusses the matter privately with the jeweler. This way he’ll choose something within a good price range. But, he might ask you to put a little money towards the ring or fully fund it. No one has to know, it will be yours and your future husbands little sparkling secret!
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Conclusion | To bling or not to bling at the ring warming ceremony
Finally, being an newly engaged might be daunting. It’s a big risk to take. And look at it this way, you are an earth-friendly couple, right. So, with sustainability in mind, will it be a romantic gesture or will you forge a ring together? Well, whatever engagement ring you choose it’s a natural way to show your love for each other. Most importantly, find one that matches the wedding ring for your ring warming ceremony. Just do what’s right for you!
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