Getting Married? The 9 Bridechilla & Bridezilla Warning Signs

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If you’re a sassy bride, bridezilla warning signs might be lingering on the horizon this wedding season and that’s when bridechilla arrives. Stressing about your wedding plans is inevitable. Not only that, they can impact on your future married life.

So, what do you do? Let’s get down to the nitty gritty. Although you are excited about your forthcoming nuptials it might be giving you a headache and causing tension. Basically, your so-called good intentions to create the picture-perfect wedding could go horribly wrong.

And there’s more… the bridechilla & bridezilla warning signs can dramatically influence the outcome of the special celebrations.

Well, the thing is, you want it all and you want it right now! With a bit of ingenuity you can marry your partner in style, have your cake and eat it too. Most importantly, everyone will come out of the wedding relatively unscathed and you’ll have years of good luck. Read on…

Bridechilla | Bridezilla Warning Signs

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1. Bridezilla follows in the footsteps of bridechilla

What is a bridechilla? Well, according to the Urban Dictionary, ”It’s not defined by your wedding, rather the need to mellow, ditch wedstress, and enjoy the entire experience”.  Simply, you don’t want to follow in the footsteps of so-called unreasonable brides. So, if you’re busy ticking all the boxes for your exhaustive planning list, breathe in and breathe out the stress. Get some expert advice from Alesisha founder of Bridechilla.

2. The screaming blue murder bride to be

On the other-hand, if you’re the dreaded bridezilla these hints could help you. Are you temperamental? Or a ridiculous spoiled diva who thinks the world centres around her  “show”? Well, before and throughout the wedding celebrations you might want to take control and have everyone drop everything. What’s more, have a tantrum. The blissful marriage might not last more than a year, if the henpecked groom to be is lucky.

3. Notable concessions with the wedding planning

Here is another home truth. It’s your wedding day and you’re in charge of what happens. However, there’s a danger of you bottling up your emotions and not being receptive to love. So, to avoid the horrible drama scenes, crazy feelings and the unexplained sense of disappointment, let go. Yes, make some concessions. Release unnecessary unresolved issues, and ensure the make-up of your celebration is relaxed, loving, fun and stress-free.

4. Bridezilla warning signs affect your new married life

Are you livid? Well, don’t get your knickers in a twist and let everyone run circles around you. The sad thing about bridezilla warning signs means you won’t enjoy the moment with your gallant groom properly. Or entertain your guests with great conversation. What’s worse, you’ll start off on the wrong step to your new married life. And, the likelihood that you’ve developed your own way of compromising and settling disputes could damage your special bond too.

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5. Minimalist wedding wedding celebration loose and unstructured

Taking the above into consideration, a wedding represents true love, a committed relationship and the bonding of two unique families. So, throwing a hissy fit or temper tantrum can ruin the event. Your aim should be to have a happy ending to your big day.  Therefore, be fearless! And enjoy celebrating your love with the smooth running of a well-organised and uncomplicated special celebration. Less drama, more fun!

6. Difficult to let go on the big day

On the flip-side your relationship may not flourish the way it should. So, it deserves to be nourished, have a chance to grow and mature. What’s more, it’s important to resolve any disagreements before the wedding ceremony. Plus, don’t be inflexible or have a meltdown. Give up the control on your big day. Stay focused on planning your nuptials together. And don’t walk around with issues buried in your heart.

7. Big day dreams of nightmare wedding scenario

Do you feel like your partner is interfering? The ceremony marks the beginning of an open and shared respect for each other’s needs. And declaring your love and adoration publicly under the watchful eyes of your loved ones should be the happiest day of your life. Don’t let your love be over shadowed by the worst-case scenarios, from natural disasters, things out of your control to guests being late.

8. Mobile phone and social media addiction

Another thing, emotional outbursts are avoidable. So, start an exciting phase of your lives as you mean to go on. Put away your mobile phones, don’t call anyone and avoid social media on the big day. Beforehand, do the marriage groundwork and give your partner the attention they deserve. Shower your unique event with a positive vibe and mark the occasion with an overblown gesture of love.

9. Sharing and keeping things sweet and simple

Finally, if you’re bridechilla you’ll listen to your partner’s spur-of-the-moment needs. And if your a bridezilla the echoes of his love will not be heard. So, share your dreams. The input adds an extra dimension and reflects on your relationship. And all your loved ones will witness how much you support, trust and cherish each other on the wedding day. Are you a bridezilla? Take the bridezilla quiz now!


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About Clover Jean: I'm a Londoner based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Being a specialist celebrant | marriage officiant | wedding ceremonies MC with a gospel & soul choir is rewarding work. So, my guilty pleasures are fine dining, travel hotspots and on-line retail therapy. What's yours? Get in touch, via Instagram #cloverjeanamsterdam or Facebook. LIKE, SHARE, SPREAD THE LOVE & see you soon!

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